In this modern era everyone has new ambition and aspiration. All are looking for success. Success in career, success in studies, success in job, success in business, success in relationship, success in family and success in everything is mostly everyone’s dream. Some dreams are to be a successful student, some dreams to be a successful employee, some dreams to be a successful Entrepreneur, some dreams to have a successful relationship like best wife/husband and some dreams to be successful parents. No one wants failure in any segment of his/her life! Everyone wants only success in their life. But do we know how to be successful??? What are the ways to get success?
Success & Self Transformation:
Transforming our own self can only give us tremendous success. We may think that success depends on various outside factors like our family status, monetary status, social status or educational status. But sometimes we see the story of such a successful person who has neither of this status!!! Then what is that thing, which made them successful???? It’s nothing only i.e. Self Transformation. Those who are successful have transformed their own selves without looking towards the outer situation or circumstance. They have only concentrated on their own self and transformed it to the full extent. That’s why they are successful. So now the point arises, what is self transformation and how is it linked to success?
What is Self Transformation?
Inside the human body our own original self resides, who is unaffected by the outer environment and circumstances. The original self is our own true identity but as our vision and senses are outward, we are unable to tune to our true self.
Transforming our outward vision to inward self and minutely observing the weaknesses within our own self, working upon those shortcomings and improvising our own self by overcoming these shortcomings and identifying and strengthening our strong points is called self transformation.
Self Transformation is positively transforming our own self to achieve the ultimate hidden potential within ourselves.
Self Transformation is not a single step; rather it’s a continuous step by step approach of Self Analysis, Self Rectification, Self Control and Self improvisation for exploring the original self within us.
Process for Self Transformation:
1st Step: Self Analysis: Analyzing our own thoughts, habits, behavior, strengths and weaknesses.
2nd Step: Self Rectification: Rectifying our own negative thoughts, bad habits, behavior and imperfections.
3rd Step: Self Control: Controlling our mind, speech, emotion and desire.
4th Step: Self Improvisation: Improvising our line of thinking, life style, dealings and courage.
Self Transformation is a perpetual cycle process. First we have to analyze our own thoughts, habits, behavior, strength and weakness. After inspecting our thinking process, attitude and flaws in our nature, we have to rectify those thoughts, attitude and nature. We have to deeply figure out what are our fears, what are our weaknesses and then we have to resolve those things. And similarly we have to evaluate our power and enhance them.
For example, someone is afraid of expressing him/herself or giving some opinion in a group. He/she is afraid that if I say something people may make a joke of it. So first one has to analyze what is his fear, what is his thought, how is he behaving in some situation. Then one has to conquer his fear and improve his thoughts. Then he has to improvise his communication and prepare himself to present his opinion among a large group of people. Likewise regularly considering your thought process and deficiencies, reforming it leads you to the self transformation process.
360 degree Success:
By transforming your own self, you will see the difference in your family, relationship, workplace, friends circle and business. You will also find the remarkable difference in life, attitude and health. In transforming your own self nothing in outside will change for you. Your friends, family, relatives, colleagues and everyone will be as usual as before but your attitude and dealing with them will change. And you will feel ultimate happiness within yourself. Because you have transformed your negative emotion, agitation, anger, hatred, weaknesses in love, bliss, energy and strength.
End Point:
Life is nothing but a ground of self transformation. We have come here on this earth to transform ourselves in a positive direction and overcome all our weaknesses. But due to the lack of awareness and knowledge we want, everything all around should transform. We have very little desire to transform ourselves but we want others to transform for us. But those who transform themselves without caring about the outer circumstances and work day and night to transform them, they can only attain success. So if you want real success then transform yourself without complaining about others.
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